A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Cases of child abuse within the Watchtower organization.

A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Postby DF1996_BEX » Sun Jan 24, 2010 6:36 pm

This is about my dear friend that is like family and her 11 year old daughter. I am so proud of her daughter because she told her mom right in front of her molester what was going on. My cousin noticed the two of them talking in low tone in the corner. Then suddenly the little girls walks away crying hysterically. She asked what he said to her that made her cry like that. She bravely told her mom and the bastard is now in jail.

I had suspected this for a long time and I did what I could to warn the mom but she just wouldnt believe it. I told her that he was a proffesional. He was grooming her for years. The last straw was when he was in that corner talking in a low voice , trying to get her to allow him to penitrate her. She had had enough. She bravely took her stand. I ask everyone to pray or send her positive energy . Her name is Lianne and she is like my own child. I send her stuff and spoil her and her brother.

One saving grace, he is not her biological father but her baby brother is. I worry for him as well. Please keep them in your thoughts.

And may justice prevail over that babyraper , I will find more info on it.

I called Liane later on today and told her how proud and strong she is. I told her even some grown ups never tell.

Take care of each other and trust your gut.
BEX
JWR works if you make friends , if you keep coming back, and you keep sharing. Recovery is a step by step process so be patient and give yourself a chance to heal. You deserve it.
User avatar
DF1996_BEX
2010 Benefactor
2010 Benefactor
 
Posts: 963
Joined: Wed Jul 29, 2009 12:39 pm
Location: I'm here!!!
Gender: Female
Current Beliefs: Universal connectivity
Age: 39

Re: A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Postby CaringCarolineAtl » Tue Mar 09, 2010 1:12 pm

I noticed that your review had 70 LOOKS but no replies. I want to say 'Thank You' for posting this!
In Manchester England lived a little girl of 5 yrs with her Mom and a sister and brother. She was abused by an elder who 'befriended' the family when they first started going to meetings. When the little girl was brave enough to tell her mom, her mom then told the elders, and guess what?...the abusive elder was taken out from being an elder but no crime was reported. Using the scriptures about not bringing our brothers to court, the other elders swept it all under the carpet and he was publicly reproved for 'conduct unbecoming a Christian.' His name was Arthur Bell.

In another case in the Preston Lancashire congregation in the UK, a young girl was sexually abused by her stepfather over many years. When she sought help in counseling, she was persuaded by the other elders to exit the counseling and to be afraid of the attitudes of the 'worldly' counselors. Last time I heard..she had gone back into the congregation......he of course still has freedom in the congregations and no-one is warned about him. He once stood behind me in a line for puchasing books, and got too close...I let him know, his smirking attempt of touching me was unwelcome! It is wrong that others who have children are not warned about this obvious predator. I wish I could remember his name to publish it.

When I sought counseling for my problems, I was still a JW. The elders tried to disuade me from entering into counseling with 'worldly' counselors too. I got all the Watchtower volumes from a ten year period and using all the articles I could find on depression, sent a 12 page letter to the elders, proving I had a scriptural right as a CHRISTIAN, TO CLEAN THE INSIDE OF THE CUP...

I got my counseling and also recoverd from being held hostage within the JW organization. I want to help other recovering or needy JWs in their exiting journey too. I encourage you to get all the counseling you can, join support groups, write on this forum. I live near Atlanta GA, if anyone is interested in starting a support group or wants private counseling, write to me at carolinamoon33@yahoo.com.

All Peace and Love
Caroline
CaringCarolineAtl
New Member
New Member
 
Posts: 3
Joined: Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:30 pm
Gender: Female
Age: 47

Re: A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Postby Apostapler » Wed Mar 10, 2010 12:16 am

Oh a good outcome! Thanks for sharing. Hope the monster stays in jail.
User avatar
Apostapler
Seasoned Member
Seasoned Member
 
Posts: 575
Joined: Fri May 22, 2009 1:16 am
Gender: Female
Age: 28

Re: A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Postby DF1996_BEX » Wed Mar 10, 2010 11:17 am

New Update ! Yesterday March 9th, they had their first court date and low and behold , he has witnesses. People I knew ram with him and I got creeper feelings from as well. My uncle being one of them. I'm not going into the issue with my uncle just to say that as a witness my mother knew what he was doing to the kids in my family and NEVER turned him in.

Anyway, My cousin is struggling with anxiety and fear. I'm hoping that you all can say a prayer or send out your love and posotive energy for them. I babysat the kids and they see me as their favorite auntie. I would bring her out here to visit but she would be exposed to 2 strange men and that might make her feel unsafe. I'm sure it would considering what she just went through. Mom is attending school and counceling so she doesnt have time to think about things but when she does she calls me. I am the only one that she can call that understands that there is a part of her that misses him. We talk about this and she knows she did the right thing but she is human and losing ones mate is already devastaing enough, let alone to lose them over this magnitude of betrayal.

I understand that this didnt get alot of comments. This is an area that is very very touchy. But If you cant say anything. Just acknowledge that the liann deserves justice. She already testified for the first time yesterday and she has to again in august. I guess this stuff was all preliminary to set a real court date.

Anyway sign this in support of liann. Even if you dont have a comment.
Love BEX
JWR works if you make friends , if you keep coming back, and you keep sharing. Recovery is a step by step process so be patient and give yourself a chance to heal. You deserve it.
User avatar
DF1996_BEX
2010 Benefactor
2010 Benefactor
 
Posts: 963
Joined: Wed Jul 29, 2009 12:39 pm
Location: I'm here!!!
Gender: Female
Current Beliefs: Universal connectivity
Age: 39

Re: A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Postby MyS_LPZ » Wed Mar 10, 2010 12:20 pm

This girl is really brave. I hope she's strong enough to endure what's to come...

Bex, remember that you all have to protect her form the cong's pressure, cause if it hasn't come yet, it will.
My thoughts are with her and her family.

Saludos,
MyS
...self-steem: v. good as am a fab together person with no apparent vices of flaws, apart from being a pathetic loser and potencially a quite thrifty evil mastermind...

... oh, let's not forget the sleeping dissorder...

MyS
User avatar
MyS_LPZ
Seasoned Member
Seasoned Member
 
Posts: 962
Joined: Sun Nov 01, 2009 9:47 pm
Location: Mexico
Gender: Female
Current Beliefs: Openminded
Age: 28

Re: A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Postby StepAtATime » Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:45 pm

She is a very brave young lady and I wish her all the best. May the courts be with her.

Joanne x
User avatar
StepAtATime
Full Member
Full Member
 
Posts: 249
Joined: Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:46 pm
Gender: Female
Age: 30

Re: A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molester!

Postby DF1996_BEX » Thu Mar 11, 2010 5:23 am

MyS_LPZ wrote:This girl is really brave. I hope she's strong enough to endure what's to come...

Bex, remember that you all have to protect her form the cong's pressure, cause if it hasn't come yet, it will.
My thoughts are with her and her family.

Saludos,
MyS

JUst so we are clear , she isnt or never was a witness. This is just something that needed to be shared. I want good energy to go her way and healing of her spirit. Im so proud of her, if this had happened in the borg she would still be under its control.
BEX
JWR works if you make friends , if you keep coming back, and you keep sharing. Recovery is a step by step process so be patient and give yourself a chance to heal. You deserve it.
User avatar
DF1996_BEX
2010 Benefactor
2010 Benefactor
 
Posts: 963
Joined: Wed Jul 29, 2009 12:39 pm
Location: I'm here!!!
Gender: Female
Current Beliefs: Universal connectivity
Age: 39

Re: A brave little girl tells her mom in front of her molest

Postby thinkngal » Sun May 16, 2010 2:25 am

My heart goes out to this little girl who spoke up...I hope she gets the justice she deserves because this is just the start of her journey to recovery jw or not jw. Having your support and the support of her mother will mean so much to her in the years to come. Be prepared for a bumpy ride [[[hugs]]]
thinkngal
New Member
New Member
 
Posts: 29
Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 11:51 pm
Gender: Female
Age: 58


Return to Child Abuse

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest